Exception to the Rule

Generally I recommend staying away from such BOLD prints, but this is an exception to the rule. I LOVE LOVE LOVE this Calvin Klein "Zebra Henley" dress. Why?

1) I have tried it on, and it's way flattering- perfect length, cut, fabric, and belted waist
2) It's on SALE for $83 (originally $120) compliments of Bloomingdales.com
3) It will look fierce on you, especially if paired with a chic pair of black pumps and tights

This dress proves that rules are meant to be broken (sometimes)!

Role MODEL

Tonight's role model is actually a plethora of plus size models. All of these women are incredibly beautiful and inspiring. I admire these big beauties for giving big girls like me hope during the toughest times...

Hiatus

My sincerest apologies. I realize I haven't posted in days, and I've missed you! By the nature of my "career" there will be times when I don't have time to post, but I hope you all know that I wish I could just sit and blog all day long!

Anyways, like Santa Claus I'm making a list...of great post topics! One of my favorite co-workers, and a loyal Big Girl follower inspired a few posts I plan to get into this weekend! I'm really looking forward to it.

Remember, like the Terminator, I'll (always) be back...

Loving Me for Me

After I got back from a beautiful afternoon at Balboa Park, I sat down to write, iPod on shuffle when a song came on that I hadn't heard in quite some time. I have always been a fan of Christina Aguilera's music because she has some pipes, but I particularly appreciate a portion of the lyrics from her song "Loving Me for Me":

"Stripped of all make up, no need for fancy clothes

No cover ups, push ups
With him, I don't have to put on a show
He loves every freckle, every curve, every inch of my skin
Fulfilling me entirely, taking all of me in
He's real, he's honest, he's loving me for me."

I appreciate these lyrics because despite being a big girl, I am fortunate my husband has always stood by me, and been loyal to me when so many others would have left. I am just lucky that he always has, and always will, love me for me.

Embrace who you are ladies...because I firmly believe there is someone out there who will appreciate you, and love you for "you."

Sunny & 78

This incredibly beautiful sunny San Diego day has inspired this big girl to do the unthinkable...buy a new swimsuit!

I am so happy I found this "Draped Maillot" marine blue one-piece just in time for a Vegas bachelorette party, and my grad trip to Kauai.

Compliments of JessicaLondon.com, this suit is a STEAL at $59 (regularly $120), and there's a special sale going on right now which saves you an additional 40%! So for under $40, I have this gorgeous, flattering suit which has tummy control (a must), and bust support (another must). The crisscross draping will compliment your curves, and hide any flaws. Now all I need is a cute sarong, some sunnies, and a great pair of earrings (or necklace as pictured)!

Is it weird I can't wait for a swimsuit to arrive?! I think so too!

Yo Quiero x2

This "Sejour Elbow Sleeve" dress in heather grey, compliments of Nordstrom.com is simple, classic, flattering, versatile, and ON SALE (for $99 down from $150). Need I say more?!

It is already on the way to my house as I type this...

Yo Quiero

I LOVE me some pencil skirts. The cut and length are ideal for big girls' bodies, and pencil skirts are classic wardrobe staples that will last for years to come!

Compliments of Nordstrom.com, this $78 "Sejour Boardwalk" pencil skirt comes in sizes 14-24. I particularly love the unique color (still dark, but not boring black), and interesting button flair. This skirt is also very versatile: wear it to the office with a colorful cardigan and your favorite pair of Tory Burch flats, or pair it with a sexy blouse and some sky high heels, and you've got a look that is perfect for a night out on the town.